Am I in a relationship with a narcissist?

Awear uses AI to analyze conversations and behaviors for signs of narcissistic abuse including gaslighting, love bombing, triangulation, DARVO, and other manipulation tactics. Take our free quiz to find out.

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation where an abuser causes the victim to question their own reality, memory, or perceptions. Awear can detect gaslighting patterns in real conversations.

How do I recover from narcissistic abuse?

Recovery from narcissistic abuse involves understanding the manipulation tactics used, rebuilding your self-worth, setting boundaries, and healing trauma. Awear provides AI coaching, journaling, milestone tracking, and personalized recovery plans.

What is the grey rock method?

The grey rock method is a technique for dealing with narcissists by becoming uninteresting and unresponsive — giving minimal emotional reaction so they lose interest. Awear teaches this and other protective strategies.

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Privacy Policy

Last updated: August 18, 2026

AWEAR ("we," "our," or "us") respects your privacy. This Privacy Policy explains what data we collect, how we use it, and your rights regarding your information.

1. Information We Collect

Information you provide:

Name, email address, account details
Conversation logs you submit for analysis
Journal entries, quiz responses, profile information
Communications you send to us

Information collected automatically:

Device type, browser type, IP address
Usage data (pages visited, features used, time spent)
Approximate location (country/region)
Cookies

Information from third parties:

Stripe (payment confirmation)
Authentication providers

2. How We Use Your Information

To provide and maintain the service
To analyze conversations for narcissistic abuse pattern recognition
To create and manage your account
To process payments via Stripe (we never store full card details)
To personalize your experience and improve AI features
To respond to support requests
To detect fraud and abuse
To comply with legal obligations

3. Data Retention

Conversation logs submitted for analysis are retained for 90 days to allow users to review patterns, then automatically deleted unless the user saves them to their journal
Journal entries and saved analyses are retained while the account is active
Deleted accounts: all conversation logs, journal entries, and pattern data permanently removed within 30 days
Aggregated, anonymous pattern data (which tactics are most commonly identified, frequency of patterns) may be retained indefinitely to improve the AI's pattern recognition
Data shared with AI providers for conversation analysis is NOT retained by the AI provider after processing
If a user deletes individual conversation logs, they are removed immediately and cannot be recovered
Certain data may be retained for legal compliance and fraud prevention

4. Data Sharing

We do NOT sell your personal data. We share data only with:

Stripe for payment processing (PCI-DSS compliant)
AI service providers to power conversation analysis features
Hosting providers
Legal authorities when required by law or to protect safety

5. Your Rights

Access: Request a copy of your personal data
Correction: Request correction of inaccurate data
Deletion: Request deletion of your account and data
Portability: Request your data in a structured format
Objection: Object to certain processing
Withdrawal: Withdraw consent at any time

To exercise these rights, contact enewberry72@gmail.com

6. Children's Privacy

This service is not directed to children under 13. We do not knowingly collect personal data from children under 13. Contact enewberry72@gmail.com if you believe a child has provided data.

7. Child Protection

AWEAR helps users recognize narcissistic abuse patterns. Some users may be parents recognizing patterns that affect their children.

If conversation analysis reveals potential child endangerment, abuse, or neglect involving a minor, we reserve the right to display a crisis prompt directing the user to the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline (1-800-422-4453) and to contact appropriate authorities if we believe a child is in immediate danger.

AWEAR does NOT store identifying information about children mentioned in conversations. Child references are analyzed only in real-time for pattern recognition and are not retained in identifiable form.

Parents may use AWEAR to understand patterns affecting their family. The Service does NOT constitute family therapy or child psychology services. Consult a licensed professional for clinical needs.

Users who attempt to use the Service to plan, justify, or document abuse of a child will be permanently banned and reported to authorities.

8. AI and Automated Processing

This app uses AI to analyze conversation patterns and identify potential narcissistic abuse tactics. AI processes your input to generate responses but does not make decisions about you that produce legal or similarly significant effects without your involvement.

9. Data Security

We use industry-standard security including TLS/SSL encryption in transit and at rest. Payment data handled exclusively by Stripe (PCI-DSS compliant).

10. Your Choices

Review and update account information in the app
Opt out of marketing emails via unsubscribe link
Request data deletion at any time
Disable cookies in browser settings

11. Changes to This Policy

We may update this Privacy Policy. Significant changes will be posted in the app or sent via email.

12. Contact Us

Redemption Management — enewberry72@gmail.com — kindredwisdom.net

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you are experiencing domestic abuse, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. To report child abuse or neglect, call the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453.